Invitation Wording: Thoughts, Suggestions, Editing

So, we're writing our wedding invitation text, per request of our designer, and we're like, um, what do we say? I have two options here, below. We prefer the first, as it's more "homey" but the formal etiquette suggests the latter. Suggestions? Preferences? The first fits better, not to bias anyone.

Our first option:

Together With Their Families

Mary Allyson Armistead

And

Christopher Clayton McClinch

request the pleasure of your company at their wedding

Saturday, The Third of October
two thousand and nine

At Five Fifteen In The Evening

Oatlands Historic House and Gardens
Leesburg, Virginia

www.allychriswedding.com

Our second option:

Gary Armistead and Jeanie Brandt
request the pleasure of your company
at the marriage of their daughter

Mary Allyson

to

Christopher Clayton McClinch

Saturday, the third of October
two thousand and nine

At a quarter past five in the evening

Oatlands Historic House and Gardens
Leesburg, Virginia

www.chrisallywedding.com

Label Designs + Vintage Label Options for Pie Boxes

6 Months to Go!

So, are we married yet? My goodness. And still six months more to go! And two WHOLE seasons left to experience. Time is a good thing, though, as we have a lot more to do.

March was a productive month. Chris and I accomplished quite a bit, from rings to music to cake to honeymoon to the registry. It's been busy, but we're proud at all we've done. Take a look:

• Rings. Chris' wedding band successfully made the trip from Ireland. It really is an amazingly cool ring, and very Chris.

• Registry. We registered at Sur La Table and Crate and Barrel.

• Cake design. We fell in love and selected our cake design.

• Stationary. We also fell in love with and ordered our wedding invitations, reply cards, envelopes, etc.

• Website. We drafted our wedding website--photos + all content (but the Chris & Ally page). We are still tinkering on the design, but we're getting there. If you have any suggestions, let us know! The purpose of the site is to provide all the information that guests might want to know, and that it's too expensive to print on our invitations.

• Favors. We booked Mom's Apple Pie Bakery to make our 4-inch pies as our favors!

• Favor boxes + materials. We explored a few options for how to box the pies: paper, wrapping, ribbon, labels. Still in progress.

• Musicians. We found another band (since our last one bailed on us!), and signed the contract. They've played the Kennedy Center and elsewhere in DC. The samples online aren't really reflective of what we're going for, since we're only opting for a violin, a mandolin, and a guitarist--more on the Irish side, less on the Celtic. Our singer hails from Ireland, though, which is awesome. More to come on the band!

• Reception decor (branches). We reserved ten lighted tree branches as decorations at the reception! We're currently exploring LED options + inverters to avoid having wires on the floor.

• Jen's dress. We found a dress that Jen loves, though I returned both on account of her big news! We'll hold off on buying a dress until her due date gets closer, so we can determine what size she'd be most comfortable in.

• Honeymoon. We booked our honeymoon vacation! Four days in a Shenandoah cabin!

• Wedding Night B&B. We booked our bed and breakfast in Leesburg (10 minutes from Oatlands) for the wedding night, next day, and Sunday night (two nights so we can catch our breath!)

Next Steps for April

• Bouquets: Book florist for bridal bouquet and/or Jen.
  
• Boutinneires: Explore flowers for men--do we make boutinneires or purchase them?
• Fresh cut flowers: Decide on local grocery store or florist for fresh cut reception flowers.
• Lighting logistics: Resolve lighting for tree branch decor--LED? Use lights on existing branches? Get an inverter? Buy strings of LED lights?
• Votives: Create eyelet votives for testing at Oatlands.
• Escort cards, table numbers: Continue brainstorming about how to make escort cards (stationary to include personal letters to guests) and how to display them--old door, clothesline, little pumpkins?
  
• Decorating: Continue to explore rustic wreath options, lanterns, garlands, and benches for Carriage House.
• Decor testing at Oatlands: Test out linen, flatware, etc. samples from We Party at Oatlands + any decor on hand + flowers, now that Oatlands is open to the public.
• Attire for the guys!: Begin looking at suit options for Chris, groomsmen, dad. Chris is going with a three-piece suit in black. More details to follow.
• Hairstyles, hair stylist: Book a stylist in Leesburg; consider hairstyles.
• Shoes: Find a pair!
  

Our Stationary, Our Website in Draft

So, we've officially placed our order with Bella Figura for invitations, reply cards, envelopes, and more!

We're working with a designer on fonts and using expresso ink on ivory 1-ply stock paper, and we're thinking that will be lovely. The paper is eco-friendly, and is so soft to the touch; I've never felt anything like it. Plus, the letterpress engraving is wow (!) and has the right antiquity and authenticity for a wedding at a 250-year-old Virginian estate. The invitations suggests a genuine warmnesss, an elegance, a bit of whimsy, and these are all chords we're hoping to strike.

We're also exploring options about where to feature a note about our wedding website URL, which is where guests will go to find directions, information about the evening, dress code, and the online registry.

We've taken a first crack at designing our website, and we hope it conveys a sense of playfulness, genuineness, and rustic beauty, much the way we hope our stationary does as well. However, I'm not sure if we'll change the design or not, as I can't help but tinker and I'm not sure whether it goes with our invite enough--maybe that's not really important. Who knows. It's just a website. Hmm... But still. Thoughts?

We welcome all of your suggestions--for content and design--and apologize if it's all a bit drafty; it's in serious need of editing, and Chris still needs to write his bio!

We're Registered!! A Miracle

Holy wow, we did it. Chris and I actually registered some gifts for the wedding. It took a lot of inertia, and there was even talk of just asking for cash (!), but we did it: a la Crate and Barrel and Sur La Table. While we are open to gifts off the registry, we'd really, really prefer gifts on the registry, as we have a new household to furnish for two people, instead of one!

The registry URLs will be available in our invitation packet, surely, but for now, here they are below. Just go to a URL, click "Give a Gift" and search on "Chris McClinch" or "Allyson Armistead." Some of these items we may purchase ourselves ahead of time to help accommodate Chris' move (!). But nonetheless, we've got another wedding duty we can cross off our lists and that's a truly awesome thing.

Crate and Barrel Registry
Sur La Table Registry

Our Honeymoon Cabin: Shenandoah With Style

So, we've found and booked our honeymoon getaway in the heart of our beloved Shenandoah! It's name? River Bend Retreat, and it's all ours October 5-October 9.

Nestled in the heart of Luray, Virginia, River Bend offers amazing mountainous views, two fireplaces, log canopy beds, a telescope for viewing the stars on its upper most tier, an outdoor hot tub, a screened in porch with a wood-burning stove, and (most important to Chris): a gourmet kitchen for his cooking!

The location is ideal for a week of fun and whimsy: local vineyards, yoga classes, hikes and hidden waterfalls, the George Washington National Forest, rafting, the Shenandoah National Park, Skyline Drive and caverns, airplane glider rides, and historic downtown Front Royal, only 15 minutes away.

In a word, we are STOKED to have found this place, and we can't wait!! Can we, like, skip ahead 6 months and just go here? Wow. I
can feel myself unwinding already.